Self-Deception

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As a member of the faculty at a University, I must represent the discipline of my trade in a dignified manner. It is a requirement of all who teach the public that they hold themselves in a position of dignity, that is, to expect to receive the acknowledgment of their students as experts and authorities in a particular discipline. Without this respect or esteem, it is impossible to impart the difficult lessons required to master a subject. Our classrooms would be full of chaos, and students would become argumentative rather than carefully listening and learning. In essence, dignity is a status requirement for any professor who is successful at teaching. This may have been earned, or it may be false, but it is essential and is part of the training received while earning the recognition of a University to teach and practice a discipline.

You can have false dignity because you are not really competent at a job and are merely pretending to be an authority, or you have a false illusion of your ability and character which can lead to a rise in arrogance and self deceit. In any case, dignity is a pretense. Perception is a powerful tool as it can discount even the most obvious facts in the minds of people and lead them away from reality. It is a form of falsehood that is portrayed by your actions.

In society one must hold others in esteem or in a dignified manner when certain events transpire. Funerals are the best example of dignity in action. The staff of a funeral establishment respects the privacy and rights of the family and of the deceased in order to alleviate certain psychological problems associated with grieving. To be dignified is to act or strive to be esteemed worthy of special consideration and attention. The staff must regard the family members as people who are dignified. This allows the family to accept respect from the staff in a subtle way. The family can grieve openly without fear of insult or other offensive responses from those around them, and this environment must be nurtured by the funeral staff so that emotional healing might take place in the family members who are left behind to grieve. This is a mark of professionalism in the funeral staff.

The word dignity however is not really a positive thing. For instance, when the Chaldeans were given power to overcome Israel as a judgment for giving themselves over to evil, the prophet Habakkuk utilized this word dignity in a fashion that gives an impression of disdain or disgust:

Behold ye among the heathen, and regard, and wonder marvelously: for I will work a work in your days, which ye will not believe, though it be told you.
For, lo, I raise up the Chaldeans, that bitter and hasty nation, which shall march through the breadth of the land, to possess the dwelling places that are not theirs.
They are terrible and dreadful: their judgment and their dignity shall proceed of
themselves.And they shall scoff at the kings, and the princes shall be a scorn unto them: they shall deride every stronghold; for they shall heap dust, and take it. (Habakkuk 1:2-7, 10)

These Chaldeans are an arrogant and self-centered lot with only one goal in mind. They are dignified by their own evaluation, but not upon any success or worthy attribute. They are characterized as bitter and hasty and regard no other authority but their own. These are not positive attributes, but they are the attributes of a spirit that allows us to think of ourselves in a way that produces dignity in us. These attributes will show up in any person with a dignified mindset. Even earned dignity will allow a person to react negatively to authority if they believe in their own right to do so.

A further example of the negative connotation of dignity is found in Ecclesiastes 10:5, 6:

There is an evil which I have seen under the sun, as an error which proceedeth from the ruler: Folly is set in great dignity, and the rich sit in low place.

This is interpreted as accepting dignity as an important measure of a person, while success marks a person as undesirable. We see this twisted thinking very often in the world of today, and this is a trend associated with an ungodly mindset and lifestyle which intends to bring only pleasure and happiness from that lifestyle. The prophet called this behavior folly.

The history of European Elizabethan civilization suggests that dignity was held as the great social attainment of the times. If you were of lowly descent and poor, as long as you held yourself in a dignified way, you were acceptable. It is common in British folklore that a true citizen of Britain would hold dignity dear unto death and not waver from the fixed heart and set jaw so as to face their death square on. This is the form of the hero mindset in the UK, even today. This is also typical of many modern societies.

Present society relies on dignity to differentiate between acceptable public social behavior and that which is derived from a crass and diminished person. If you do not behave in a dignified manner, you may be considered socially unacceptable. If you do not follow this norm of behavior in our society, you become uncomfortable around those who value it to the point of being personally alienated and uncomfortable.

The Bible holds a somewhat different viewpoint of dignity; it seems dignity is not something to be coveted or nurtured.

Why would such a useful social context be so negative in the Bible? A look at the definition of the Hebrew word for dignity (marom) is very revealing. It means lifted to a height to deceive or to be deceived. Dignity can deceive those who observe it in others, and most often the person who portrays dignity is deceived in their own mind!

When Israel began to drift from the righteousness of the law, they moved the sacrificial worship from the temple to the high places (so that travel to the temple was not necessary!). The high places were historically used for the worship of gods who reside in the heavens and other idolatrous figures. The deception for the people of Israel came about because it seemed that the worship was correct, it was just done in a different place, that’s all. Later, the method of the sacrifice became further corrupted until it became the worship of false gods.

A person who possesses great dignity is very often operating under self deception. They may have a wrong self image, or they may have had a success which leads them to believe incorrectly about their own abilities and merit or other personal or self-obtained characteristics. In any case this is a personal attribute to be shunned for a Christian.

A particular reason to avoid dignity on a personal level is because of self-deception. When we worship God, people are to be wholly dependent upon His will and not their own. Dignity is a way of exerting personal will, and leads to false worship, or otherwise hinder worship. You excuse yourself from demonstrations of worship because that just isn’t acceptable for a person of your status and responsibility. You can easily express concern about those who may run laps around the building, or dance in the aisle in a spirit of worship and regard them as being un-dignified. They are indeed un-dignified in a social context, and rightly so, for the Lord of heaven requires us to forfeit our pride, dignity, and self aggrandizement in order to place Him above us. When people exhibit restraint in worship for this reason, they hide themselves from Him. This is the same response that Adam and Eve had in the garden after they sinned. You hold back our worship in order to prevent someone recognizing you as un-dignified because internally you feel that we deserve to be dignified.

Nothing could be further from the truth. A Christian should lay no claim to dignity because the essence of being a Christian is to be a servant (of low esteem in society) and completely dependent upon His ability to allow us to exist in the kingdom of God. We have absolutely no saving merit at all of our own effort and ability in the kingdom of God.

The spirit of antichrist is the one which elevates above God. It belongs to the spirit of self-will and to the opponents of the kingdom of God. It is a very dangerous attribute for a Christian.

A Christian must recognize that dignity is the antithesis of Christianity. It is in fact the spirit of antichrist (opponent to the Messiah) to be of dignified demeanor for some personal reason. The scripture states this by the Hebrew word translated as dignity. It means a high place, a place to deceive or beguile, and is the attitude of those who resist God. The concept of being lifted up in any way, except by God, is to be elevated above God. An individual cannot afford to let this spirit into the heart or it will lead to personal destruction.

For many deceivers are entered into the world, who confess not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh. This is a deceiver and an antichrist.(II John 1:7)

Worship of God is a sign of obedience and allegiance to Him. You must not refrain from whole hearted worship, regardless of how uncomfortable you feel. If you are so uncomfortable that you cannot openly rejoice and worship, then there may be something deceiving you. Search your heart and ask God to reveal to you any and all deception so that you can freely worship God. Pray for conviction. David said it best:

Who can understand his errors? Cleanse thou me from secret faults. (Psalms 19:12)

An example of righteousness refusing to obtain dignity is King David who was dancing before the Ark of the Covenant as it was returned to Israel. His dance was so undignified that his wife was offended. Why would David do such a thing? Because he was giving God his best worship, indicating to God that he was completely obedient to Him and dependant upon Him. The only way for a King to show the people and God that he was completely sold out to God was to dance before God and the people with an undignified, whole hearted dance in worship; something a king would never do. The word that is translated “fear before the lord” in this passage is “Khaool Kaheel” which literally means to twirl or dance about in a circular motion. It was in David’s heart to love God, and he wanted God to know that this was everything he had to give. David knew that God had already given him everything else!

It may be possible to be a dignified person and get to heaven, but you must leave that aside when it comes time to worship God. A side effect of the dignity involved in keeping employment is to bring your dignity to the house of the Lord and you may begin to believe it. Resist the tendency to regard yourself as something you really are not and search regularly to notice when this may be occurring. Then, throw your dignity to the wind, as it can become the spirit of Antichrist within you, and then begin to worship the Lord with all your heart. Like David, we must worship with everything we have; it is what God wants from us. God responds to the meek, the contrite, and the lowly and returns to them joy and peace. The only thing God seeks is people on Earth who will worship Him in spirit and in truth.